Not only am I emotionally unequipped for casual sex (it’s too dismissive, and I crave affection), but I’ve been on a rather turbluent journey regarding receptive anal intercourse, which came to a head after a particularly traumatic experience that required surgery and months of painful recovery. Unfortunately, these sensitivities have snaked their way into the bedroom as well.
From my feelings (I’m a Cancer) to my skin (I’m a redhead), my sensitivities have been such a constant in my life that they’ve come to define me. If a close friend were asked to describe me, they’d say that I’m sensitive.